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THE ASSET APPROACH
Giving Kids What They Need to Succeed

ASSET OF THE MONTH
December, 2008

ASSET TYPE

ASSET NAME

 DEFINITION

Positive Values

Honesty

Young person tells the truth even when it's not easy

 

Lincoln-Way - 66%

National - 63%

REINFORCEMENT

AT HOME:

AT SCHOOL:

IN THE COMMUNITY:

IN YOUR CONGREGATION:

  • Model honesty in your daily life.
  • When you fudge the truth, admit it and apologize.
  • Encourage and expect family members to be honest with themselves and each other.
  • Catch your children being honest.
  • Talk through situations where it's tempting to be dishonest and think of solutions together.
  • Never punish your kids for being honest with you.
  • Discuss situations observed of honesty vs. dishonesty and consequences.
  • Include honesty in your school's stated and posted values & expectations.
  • Establish clear boundaries and consequences for dishonest behavior. Publish them in the school handbook.
  • Teach honesty skills in the classroom.
  • Ask students to tell in their own words what honesty means to them.
  • Make it easier for students to be honest than to be dishonest.
  • Encourage and expect all faculty and staff to model honesty.
  • Make honesty a community value. Hold public officials and local celebrities to high standards of honesty.
  • Notice and affirm young people who act with honesty.
  • Feature stories in the media about people who acted honestly.
  • Be willing to get involved when you witness dishonest behavior.
  • Take a stand for honesty with neighbors and businesses.
  • Don't make fun of honesty or pressure persons to be dishonest.
  • Model honesty as individuals and as a congregation. Be honest in your dealings with your membership, your neighbors, and your community.
  • Make honesty a topic of sermons, homilies, articles in worship bulletins, and mailings to member households.
  • Use sacred writings and stories to illustrate the importance of honesty.
  • Give members a safe place to struggle with tough ethical and personal situations where honesty can be difficult.
 
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